The Man and the Beer

Just before dinner, I went for a walk around a small town on Sejerø, an island in Denmark. Before I left, Mama said that I should talk to some people if I met them, contrary to my usual habits. So, fifteen minutes later, I ended up chatting with a nice old man. Before long, he opened two beers, despite my protests, saying it was usual for kids my age, and that it was a light beer. After fifteen minutes, when I was wondering how to get back to Sila in time for dinner, he said,"Scoll," Danish for cheers, and walked off. Not sure what to do with the untouched, yet open, beer, I took it home with a great story.

There are three reasons why this experience is so memorable. The first is learning about the cultural difference around alcohol in Denmark versus the United States. I was very surprised to find out that 13 year old kids are allowed to drink beer. In school, at the doctor's office, and on many signs in the U.S., I had learned that until I turn 21, I should stay away from alcohol. Yet here I was, only thirteen, being given a beer. It was a strange moment.

The second is that I was reward for stepping out of my comfort zone and talking to a stranger. Usually, I do not talk with random people. I only talk with strangers when I have a completely necessary question and I cannot get Jack or Mama to ask it for me. So, strangely, on my first try, I was rewarded with a beer, which is effectively not a reward. Fortunately, Mama swapped it for a fresh batch of her delicious homemade cookies.

The third was learning about Denmark from the man. I learned about the fish, animals, and foods found in Denmark. He said he had traveled all over the country tracking down criminals when he was younger, so he knew it well. He also told me that the three most common animals on Sejerø are a relative of the red deer, pheasant, and hare. Without this information, I would not have been on the lookout for them during our walk the next day.

Now, I joke, I have done all the stranger talking for the month. One fifteen minute conversation is plenty for the rest of October. Until the end of the month, Jack and Mama can ask all my questions for me!  -Porter